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These are the memories his children will cherish of their superhero.

Dad, a girls first superman and a boys first James Bond, maybe that’s taking it a little too far, nonetheless you get the picture. Fathers, in the past have been portrayed as that man that leaves for work early in the morning and returns late, usually sitting infront of the tv or behind a newspaper. They did not play a major role in their children’s educational, recreational or spiritual lives, however their role seems to have changed over the past few decades.

Fathers now play a more active role in their children’s education, attending school meetings, helping with homework and even playing chauffeur. Perhaps circumstances, with both parents having to work, forced these added responsibilities onto them or could it be that they are genuinely interested?

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Parents and Kids Relationship

Whatever the reason, this new age dad is just the answer to today’s social problems. Studies have shown that children living with both parents are emotionally more stable and display a higher level of confidence than children coming from single parent families. It has also been proven that homes with both parents have better financial stability. Despite all the encouragement from government and civil society, South Africa still sits with the dilemma that only 33% of children under the age of 5 come from homes with both parents living together.

Whether it is because of divorce or people just deciding not to marry, the truth is, children need their fathers to be part of their lives. It is important for a father to provide financially for his children as well as to have contact time, physical affection, day-to-day involvement and supportive communication.

The type of relationship a child has with his/her father can determine the kind of relationship he/she will forge with their spouse, co-workers and even their own children. Being a good father does not only mean fulfilling the obligations set out by the law. A good father is that man who will stay up late while his son studies for his matric exams or while his daughter completes her art assignment. He is that man who will take his son to the golf course on a Saturday, instead of spending it with his friends and he is that man who will spend an entire day shopping with his daughter for that perfect pair of shoes. At the end of the day, these are the memories his children will cherish of their superhero.

Suyan Budhoo – Life Coach Pretoria

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All FEAR means is to Face Everything And Rise

Procrastination kills creativity, purpose and our dreams even before we give ourselves a chance. At the beginning of every new venture, business or personal goal, we are often filled with bright and beautiful ideas. However , these ideas are meaningless and can die a quick death if we do not take action.

Taking action requires us to overcome challenges such as laziness, self-doubt and fear, the result of which is procrastination. Most people have great intentions to take action, and many have no idea, why they even put things off to a later date.

Fear of failure is often one of the reasons people don’t even take action, don’t kill your dreams at birth. As a baby needs constant care and support so too does a new business or relationship. I am sure you will not abandon a baby for not being able to walk instantly, yet many people are ready to throw in the towel at the first challenge they face. For people who are afraid to fail, they should remember that all FEAR means is to Face Everything And Rise. As a child, everytime you fell you stood up again, why then is it so difficult to do it now, when it matters, when you matter, when your goals and dreams matter the most.

Self-doubt also is one of the reasons people procrastinate. Some of the most famous, wealthiest people in the world have had their ideas rejected, but that did not stop them from pursuing their dreams. The greatest reason for their success is that they had faith in themselves, and their idea. Even if nobody else believes in you, what matters the most is that you believe in yourself. Self-doubt can deny you the life you dream about. Your freedom lies in your ability to conquer your challenges, the biggest challenge for many being self-doubt.

Although almost everyone dreams of a better life for themselves and their families, not everyone has what it takes to manifest that better life. By putting off what we can do now, we are putting off what we can have now. We can make excuses that we do not have enough time, or play the blame game, but when we truly think about it, not taking action is just a sign of laziness. Everyone can stay the same and choose to live a mediocre life, but if you want to have a prosperous life you must be willing to do the things you haven’t done before, you must be willing to sacrifice your time and most importantly stop blaming.

In order for you to move from a life of procrastination to a life of prosperity, overcoming fear, self doubt and laziness is key. “There is no one in your way except you.”

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